Story: how can i get my bf to have a 3way

I've never had a guy friend have an issue with a 3way with another woman its the man part that is much more difficult and takes more convincing. Although, becareful what if they connect and start sleeping together on the side. Happened to Demi moore!

I'm a female tho. Lol i don't know how to change my profile info on here just yet.

Anyways. I'm not worried about him leaving me. He is the one who keeps stalling about it.

With out a doubt the most memorable 3ways my wife and i have had, are the ones that were a surprise to one of us, arranged with a third party, with out the knowledge of the other. Perhaps you could arrange a dinner night for your girl friend and after a few drinks take it from there. But make it about him to start with. However at the end of the day, if it's not him, it's not him,you can't force him into some thing he's not comfortable with.

That may work. I'm not sure tho. I want for it to be about him completely tho.

At the beginning of this it was about u missing the taste of another woman now its about him....?
I guess if he is not into it... he is not into it...? Has he told u why he is not interested in this 3sm ....? Is he afraid that he may not perform or may be left out...( wondering)....?

Pegasus

He was with another girl for 13years and married to her for six years. They had a mmf. Afterwards he found out that she had been cheating on him from day one of their marriage and they divorce soon afterwards. We have talked about it. He has stated for me to find another girl but he has the last say about it. I guess he's afraid of me leaving him for another girl instead of another guy like his x wife.

He has never had a mff and i want him to. He knows how i feel about it and all.

Well what can I say .... once bitten twice very scared... of losing u may be...? Thats a huge compliment to you Babygirl ... do u really want want to change your relationship and him....? As thats what may happen...! You may get to lick and taste the vagina u are longing for... but there may be a price to pay especially if yr partner has a psych problem...!!
Pegasus

I wouldn't ever dream of hurting nor leaving him. But i'm also not willing to give up my sexuality either.

Tell him you'd like to make things right... You want a mff three-way and have the first one planned then after he finds out how much he enjoys it, they will come as a surprise more and more often when your out together. Find out how he'd like a mff 3way what he'd like to do, see and make sure it happens. Its good to have friends female ones you can go too in these situations that won't get attached. were him and his ex swingers?

I've talked to the guy that they had the mmf with and he said that my bf didn't really like the fact of another guy ******* his now x wife and that they didn't touch. My bf only did it because she wanted to. I've talked to her as well and ended up in a fist fight with her because of the way she started downing him. All of his family and friends plus her family have told me what kind of person she is. I'm normally not a fighting unless the other person swings first. Anyways i just got off the phone with him. We talked about doing a 3s this weekend. He said he wants to see what a ffm is like and if he would enjoy it. I told him that he didn't have to do it if he really didn't wanna and that he didn't have to do it just because i wanted to. Was i wrong in telling him that?

now this just got really weird... You talked to the guy who is banging his x, ans was in his other three way? There has to be some sort of lines here right? Or talking to his x about a 3way they had too much for me... Sorry!

Like I stated earlier Mrs S... the bf has a few psych issues does not want to go there for some reason.... and I agree about the boundaries... :-)

I didn't ask them about that. They came to me.

The guy only did the 3some.

Yessss ....? Correct me if im wrong here babygir.... 3sm was With his ex right...and he lost the ex to the other woman.... now yr telling him that you have a taste he does not want to go there.... there is a word that I hv in my vocab... no matter who im with and what we do to each other and how many people are involved at the time...I endeavour to Respect other peoples feeling and attitudes.... (not sure if im making sense here)...
good luck... :-)

Pegasus

My bf's x wife left him for another man who lived out of state. She did not leave him for another woman. She did not leave him for the man that they had their threesome with. I do have respect for him.

wait its not a 3way if only one guy participates just saying... Also why did his ex and her new bf come to you about the failed threesome that seems really odd, and how do you even entertain that conversation???

My bf's x wife did not get with the guy that they had the threesome with. Her new man never approach me. She is a bitch that no body likes. Her own family doesn't like her after what she has done.

The guy who my bf and my bfs x wife had the 3 way with, i guess he thought i should know the truth about the xwife after she tried to scar me off and lied to me about who was doing the cheating.

I didn't ask for any of what they told me. It was all a surprise.

( i'm 26. My bf is 32.)

Yeeaaahhh... Ok. Sumpin smells fishy here and were not at fishermans wharf.

Oh well. Guess i'm just gonna sit back and just see if it ever happens.

I am now single once again