Story: Do I Dare

After several months of unemployment by boyfriend finally went back to work. His frist day at the new job he met up with a former coworker who needed a ride to and from work. My boyfriend was more then happy to help him. The first time i met him i praticaly soaked my panties. He was absolutely gorgeous. 6 ft slender build, hazel green eyes that just seem to pierce strait through you, deep voice, definitly my kind of guy. Oh not to mention he has an awesome personality and he is an extrovert. Anyways, the past week he has been over every day, and it may just be in my head but some times when he stares at me it almost feels like he is undressing me with his eyes. Kind of how a lion looks at his prey before they attack. My mind has wondered what it maybe like to allow him to "accidently" walk in on me at a "rather inappropreate" moment. And as of last night i saw my oppertunity. He invited us to a camp out at a lake for a week end. But the question is do i dare drop hints for a possible amazing night? Shlould i allow him to release his sexual desires on my body?

well all I'll say is this, clearly your not that into your boyfriend or you want an open relationship. Second your an adult whatever decisions you make make on your own, not because others encourage you! Finally my last thought is, maybe its your boyfriends way of saying he wants a threesome or wants to watch, ever thought of that???

How long have you and your bf been together? I'd say you only live once chase your heart but this doesn't sound like your heart here but more like lust....

I know this isnt going to sound right, but he has cheated on me, and he gave me a "pass" for his indisgretions. Though i am iffy on cheating on him it would be nice to have a passionate man for once..

well sweetie it sounds like you two aren't meant together don't start something new if you think its going to be the reason for you ending it. end it, and move on whoever the next guy is...

wait he gave you a pass??? Sounds like he doesn't care about you then...

only cause I'm interested could you please explain to me how you and your boyfriend got to the whole pass situation??? how did it lead up to that?

yeah I don't understand the whole pass thing... However, ask him for a threesome if his friend loves you better maybe he'd get the clue...

Rachel was right... You are an adult, and that makes you able to make decisions and bear the consequences whether good or bad. I won't judge, but the other members doubting the health of your relationship are right also... Why do you need/want a boyfriend? Comfort, security, companionship, financial comfort/security? Weigh this all into consideration as it seems you don't have much holding you in this one, or you are willing to let everything go to be in another one. What is most important to you in a relationship? We become who we are by the choices we make, and as we grow older, we begin to appreciate different things as our needs change. Just because you have a pass (which the other members are right also... sounds a bit fishy... was it given to you to end a disagreement from boyfriend's cheating time?) doesn't mean that you have to use it, and it's always helpful to walk in the other mate's shoes every now and then... how would he feel if you moved on with his friend? Is a threesome even wise, or do you need to have a heart to heart with you bf about where your relationship is and why it seem so "throw-a-way" to you?

If I were you, I would totally prepare for a fun night in bed with him, use protection! Haha. Have fun.